Dear Jen, I am a married man and my wife recently found out that I enjoy watching gay porn and wearing women’s underwear. She is wondering if I am gay or even bi. I love my wife, I don’t want to be with anyone else, and I don’t really think that I am gay or…
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5 Things You Need to Know to Overcome an Affair Recovering from an affair can be as overwhelming as the discovery of the affair itself. Most people tell me they feel as their world has been shattered into pieces and are at a loss in regards to what to do next. “What should we do?…
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Choosing the Perfect Sex Toys I have been asked many questions in the therapy room from concerned clients about where to begin when it comes to sex toys. They come from all walks of life and vary in many aspects. However, there is a common theme that I encounter rather often. “I have zero clue…
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Dear Jen, I was dating this girl for a little bit and I thought things were going well. Then all of a sudden she stopped talking to me. I know she is getting my messages, but she just won’t answer. I don’t know what I did wrong. How can I get her to respond to…
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Getting Your Relationship and Sex Questions Answered: Differing Sexual Styles Dear Jen, My partner really likes a certain sexual position, but I CANNOT stand it. How can we make our sex life work? Does it mean that we both have to do without what we really enjoy in order to compromise? Sincerely, Unsatisfied Dear Unsatisfied,…
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Fighting Fair Do you and your partner fight fair? Would you know what fighting fair looks like if you saw it? As a couple’s therapist, I see clients come in the door and break down their fights to me. One of the first things I notice is how mean couples can be toward each other. I…
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Jiggy with Jen: Your Relationship and Sex Questions Answered Dear Jen, How much masturbation is too much masturbation? Asking For a Friend Dear Asking For a Friend, This is a pretty common question, especially with people talking about things like porn and/or sex addiction. The agonizingly simple answer is, naturally, it depends. I think…
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What Are We Fighting About? Most individuals in a relationship have experienced a disagreement with their significant other where they are left to wonder “what the (fill in the blank) just happened?”. Maybe the argument started off about something trivial like a cup in the sink or a light being left on but ended with…
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Dr. Viviana is always on the look out for the best articles and new pertaining to Relationship therapy she constantly shares insight on her Facebook and Twitter accounts and even occasional video messages on Instagram. This month we are bringing her favorites right to your inbox! You Like It, You Really Like It: Read the…
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To Swing or Not to Swing I recently had a couple come into session because several months ago they made the decision to change their sexual lifestyle to become “swingers.” That is they engage in sexual activity with other couples. They reported that they had decided to inform some of their friends about this lifestyle…
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