Exploring Fantasy in Your Relationship
As seen on FOX 26 Houston, October 9, 2025
When couples hit a plateau in their intimate life, it doesn’t always mean the spark is gone — it often means curiosity has faded. In my recent FOX 26 Houston segment, I shared how exploring fantasy can reignite passion, deepen emotional intimacy, and bring more playfulness into a long-term relationship.
Here’s what every couple should know:
1️⃣ Fantasy sparks curiosity — and curiosity sparks connection.
When you talk about your fantasies, you’re showing your partner who you are beneath the day-to-day routine. It’s not about creating something unrealistic — it’s about rediscovering each other’s imagination and desires. This curiosity builds emotional closeness and helps couples feel seen and desired again.
2️⃣ It can break through routine and stress.
Life’s responsibilities often leave little room for sensuality. Fantasy helps couples escape autopilot mode and approach intimacy with a sense of adventure. Whether it’s sharing a sexy thought, planning a themed date night, or trying something new together, these moments remind you that your relationship can still feel exciting.
3️⃣ Exploring fantasies safely builds trust.
When you share something personal, you’re inviting vulnerability. The key is to start small, listen without judgment, and keep consent and comfort at the center of the conversation. This type of open communication can become one of the most powerful forms of foreplay.
4️⃣ Tools can help make fantasy fun — not intimidating.
That’s exactly why I created My VIVID Fantasy: Intimate Couples Kit. It’s designed to help couples explore their sensual side in a playful, approachable, and deeply connected way. Each kit includes a luxurious blend of items — a silky sash, a massaging toy, a clean-ingredient lubricant, intimate wipes, and my exclusive “Pillow Talk” candle — along with a QR code that guides you through three creative ways to use the sash. Whether you’re new to fantasy or ready to expand your comfort zone, this kit makes it easy (and fun) to start.
Pair the kit with my My VIVID Fantasy: Create Your Own Fantasy Quiz to discover what truly excites you before sharing it with your partner.
If you’ve been craving a little more spark, don’t wait for passion to find you — create it.
Start by watching the full FOX 26 Houston segment here, then explore your own fantasy with the tools I’ve designed to help couples reconnect and play again.
Because when fantasy meets communication, connection deepens — and that’s where lasting intimacy begins.
