Healthy Ways to Celebrate Valentine’s Day as a Couple – With Dr. Viviana Coles
Looking for Valentine’s Day intimacy tips that actually bring you and your partner closer—without the pressure or perfection? Dr. Viviana Coles of Houston Relationship Therapy is here to help.
Dr. Viviana Coles, renowned Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist and Intimacy Expert at Houston Relationship Therapy, recently returned to the He Said, Ella Dijo podcast to talk all things sex, connection, and keeping it real for the holiday of love.
Is Valentine’s Day Just a Hallmark Holiday?
Some couples feel conflicted about Valentine’s Day. Is it meaningful, or is it just another commercialized event? Dr. Viviana encourages couples to reclaim the day in a way that aligns with their own intimacy style.
💡 “If you want to skip the flowers and plan a sensual night in, that’s just as romantic as any big gesture,” says Dr. Viviana.
Heading Into the Holidays the Healthy Way
In the podcast, Dr. Viviana checks in with Ros and Eric about how couples can:
- Get clear on their expectations and love languages
- Communicate their emotional and physical needs
- Avoid the comparison trap on social media
- Plan a holiday that brings them closer emotionally and physically
Valentine’s Day Intimacy Tips for Real-World Couples
Whether you’ve been together 6 months or 16 years, checking in as a couple before a holiday like Valentine’s Day can make a big difference.
Want to Spice Things Up This Year?
Dr. Viviana shares a surprise at the end of the episode that had Ros giggling instantly—and it’s all about helping couples explore a more playful, intimate side.
If you’re ready to ignite your passion, check out:
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Create your own custom erotic story and explore what turns you (and your partner) on—together. It’s fun, sexy, and research-backed.
Bonus Tip: Discover Your Intimacy Style
If you’re unsure where to start when it comes to physical closeness, Dr. Viviana recommends taking the free quiz to discover your intimacy style. Are you more Bonding, Release, Giving, or Responsive?
📝 Take the quiz at 4IntimacyStylesQuiz.com
Knowing your style can help you connect more deeply and communicate what you need for a more satisfying relationship.
Ready to Take the Next Step?
Dr. Viviana and her team at Houston Relationship Therapy work with individuals and couples to build lasting emotional and physical intimacy. Whether you’re preparing for a special date night or addressing deeper concerns, therapy can help you feel more connected than ever.
✨ Book your session today with one of our expert therapists—in person or virtually.
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