On September 16, 2025, nationally recognized relationship and sex therapist Dr. Viviana Coles appeared on FOX 11’s Good Day LA to unpack a frustration many couples face: “Why doesn’t my partner hear me?”
Dr. Coles explained that communication breakdown isn’t always about volume—often, it’s about timing, emotional safety, and what’s underneath the surface. She shared four reasons why partners may struggle to truly hear each other, even when they’re technically listening.
Some of the key takeaways include:
- Many people listen to respond, not to understand, which shuts down deeper connection.
- Poor timing—like bringing up tough topics during high-stress moments—can make even well-intentioned conversations fall flat.
- A history of unresolved conflict can cause one or both partners to emotionally tune out, leading to resentment and distance.
- When people feel blamed or criticized, they often go into defense mode instead of staying open and engaged.
Dr. Coles encouraged couples to reset their approach to communication by creating safe, intentional space to connect—and to get curious instead of combative when things get hard.
For anyone who’s ever felt invisible in their own relationship, this segment offers actionable insight and hope.
Watch the full interview here:
Good Day LA: Why Doesn’t My Partner Hear Me?
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