When it comes to intimacy, sharing sexual initiation in relationships is often overlooked—but it’s one of the most powerful ways to build emotional connection and mutual respect. In this segment, Dr. Viviana Coles, licensed sex therapist and founder of Houston Relationship Therapy, breaks down why initiation shouldn’t fall on just one partner.
Known for her expert insight and warm delivery, Dr. Viviana explains how unequal responsibility in initiating intimacy can lead to resentment, confusion, or emotional distance over time.
Why Sharing Sexual Initiation in Relationships Matters
Dr. Viviana encourages couples to rethink how they approach intimacy by:
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Normalizing open conversations about desire and timing
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Encouraging both partners to express interest and initiate touch
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Understanding that initiation can be emotional, verbal, or physical
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Challenging old gender norms that put pressure on one partner to always initiate
By sharing this responsibility, couples cultivate a more balanced and connected intimate life. It also helps avoid misunderstandings like one partner feeling unwanted or the other feeling overly responsible for keeping intimacy alive.
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