Specializing in Couples and Sex Therapy
“Afterwards I kept thinking, ‘Did that just happen?’” I hear this phrase from nearly every person that walks through my door and tells me about being sexually assaulted. But what is sexual assault? Sexual assault is defined as “any type of sexual activity that you do not agree to. It can be verbal, visual, or…
One of the most common innocent complaints I get from both my male and female clients is that their partner doesn’t smell, taste, feel as clean as they would like. Fortunately, it is an easy fix (for most of them). If you or your partner are struggling with this sensitive topic, keep these everyday items…
1. Start Early. I get it. You work long, hard hours. You get home and just want to rest – eat dinner, have a drink, watch some tv, and before you know it, you and your partner are both too tired for sex. One remedy for this is to make love in the morning. Right…
I often have clients that come into my office and tell tales of dissatisfying sexual experiences. Sometimes these are due to lack of experience, but often these situations are due to unrealistic expectations and/or a lack of knowledge. Let’s face it, while we see sex all over in television, music, magazines; it is still taboo…
Destination: (Adult) Toyland Questions to ask yourselves: Do we want to take the surface roads only (avoid penetration)? If yes, (FOR THE LADIES) stick with a vibrating toy with several speed settings that are flat and have edges that are different sizes so that it can be used on different body parts. (FOR THE GUYS)…
In Christian counseling, the foundation of the therapeutic process is the belief that God offers hope and healing in the midst of hurt and brokenness. While my training is in Christian counseling, many of my clients do not specifically identify with Christianity. It is my goal to work with each client to help them understand…
Ladies- you may want to forward this to your man As soon as someone finds out that I am a therapist who focuses on sex therapy the inevitable question arises, “How do I get my girlfriend/wife to have more sex?” I usually laugh and say, “Go do the dishes.” In all seriousness, it is no…
On this Thanksgiving Holiday, show your partner gratitude by sharing with him/her at least 3 ways that they have added positivity and love to your life this year. Have kids? Make sure to also do this kindness in front of them. HAPPY THANKSGIVING! If you have any further questions about this topic or to schedule…
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MANHATTAN, KS – ‘Till debt do us part! Yes, you got it right: it looks like money problems are the top predictor of divorce. “I see many couples who are experiencing difficulties talking about money, spending money and saving money,” said Family and Marriage Therapist, Dr. Viviana Coles. No matter how much money people make,…